If memory serves me correctly, the holidays are the most stressful time of the year for people. We hope that this Christmas season is joyful, appreciative and festive.
My wife and I try to step back and appreciate why there is Christmas. It is not about shopping. It is not about presents. It is not about parties. It is about being together, being happy. It is about celebrating the birth of the savior.
Do as you see fit on any religious aspect of Christmas. But, I encourage you to simplify the holiday, make it happy. It has done wonders for our family. That approach has made Christmas happier than ever before. If it works for you, splendid. If not, I hope you find a way to ensure you are happy and joyful with whomever you spend your time.